I was beginning to think all this talk about trans women being able to achieve female orgasm was an urban myth. But wow, what a humdinger!
I feel a bit funny writing about matters “down there” on here because there are a few people I know in “real life” who read this blog and, well, I’m sure they don’t really want to know about my bits.
But I can’t really let this momentous event about my unmentionables go unmentioned – especially as it’s International Women’s Day – and #TransWomenAreWomen is trending on Twitter! Oh, how the transphobes are offended!
I’ve read much on the internet about trans women being able to achieve female orgasm, but I was beginning to think that maybe it was just wishful thinking on their parts (if you’ll pardon the pun) or maybe that I was just unlucky.
I’ve been on HRT for the best part of two years now and had just about begun to give up hope of ever reaching the Big O promised land.
As I say, I don’t want to write too much about my bits on here, but thing have changed since I began transition.
Although I can still get off in the normal *male* way, it’s not something I’ve done for a long time now – I just don’t like it anymore.
So, a few months ago, I bought a toy – a variation on the Hitachi Wand called the Yarosi Curve.
The Yarosi Curve
This bad, bad boy is designed to help people with achy muscles – but read the reviews and you’ll see that really is a girl’s best friend.
So pre-op trans girls, if you’re still masturbating the old way, you’re doing it wrong! If your future is female, it’s time to get busy with the buzzy!
I mean, if you wanna continue, the old way, strumming away, up and down, in and out, well, good for you. But the female way is far more fun. So here’s what’s what: just do what cis girls do.
If you still have your old chap, that sort of rules out penetration – at least from a front bottom point of view.
And you might feel a fair bit of gender dysphoria towards it. But not so fast – whether you call it your helmet, your knob end or your dick head, your good old glans can come in handy. Your bell end can be your new best friend!
Most trans women will be aware that, when undergoing sex reassignment surgery (SRS), it’s this bit that is re-purposed to form a clitoris. It’s jam packed full with nerve endings, so it makes sense.
But you don’t need to wait until surgery, if you’re even planning to have it at all. You can start today!
So that’s what I’ve been doing the past few weeks, changing the way I do things “down there”, learning as I go on. You don’t need an erection, you don’t need to strum away – you just need those good vibrations!
Get a vibe – and get a good one. There are dozens of Hitachi wand-style vibrators out there, but some are cheap knock-offs with poor motors in them. Read the reviews and get a powerful one.
The ultimate game-changer
Then do what cis girls do. I leave on my underwear, I start slightly away from my new re-purposed “magic button” and then I build up – and up and up – making little circular movements before finishing on the bullseye at that special moment.
I’ve been perfecting this technique for a few weeks, and the orgasms have been great – but they were still what I’d call *male* ones.
Until this afternoon. I’ve been having a duvet day after a mad party last night, so I took the opportunity to have a little play.
And bingo, jackpot, it finally happened. WOW! The main difference between this new orgasm and the old ones were the waves of sheer ecstasy.
In the old days, an orgasm would build to a crescendo and then subside. Now it builds to a crescendo and then falls away and then builds again and repeat, and repeat, and repeat again. And again. Wow!
I was quite “moany” as well, which I’m not usually when by myself. Afterwards, I felt so serene, beautifully relaxed. If I still smoked, I’d have lit a cigarette.
So there ya go, girls. My first female orgasm, which just so happened to coincide with International Women’s Day. Happy daze!
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Thank you for being so open in your blog. this was very informative and insightful as trans-attracted trans-male. i wish the best for you.
Thanks Kristian! xxx
Awesome! I’m so happy for you!
I’ve been learning with my new friend but aren’t there yet. Now I’m suddenly rather eager for progress.
Hey Andie, I hope you’re doing well.
I recently discovered this blog searching for trans fashion ideas. Im a lifelong cross dresser and am now having gender therapy as I try to work out what/who I am.
I’m intrigued by the 2 years on hrt and still having functionality of you boy parts.I really love my wife and had imagined that keeping the ability to be intimate was critical but the more I read and think, I realise there’s plenty of other ways to do things.
Take care and stay safe x
Hi Andie; Ladies,
I used to play in the feminine way when I was a child until I was told that masturbation was only done as we think of boys doing it – until I was 15 I had never ever Jacked off, and knew only the feminine form, which had performed almost daily since the age of four.
Anyway, I recently rediscovered this form – Jilling myself, and am s much more satisfied – re-imagining myself as I used to before I became a man. Luckily, i have slipped straight back into my old habits and am experiencing my old friends, the big feminine orgasm, up to 3 times a day again, although I am beginning to calm down to one or two after almost 3 months of Jilling myself. As you say, this orgasm is so much better than the male orgasm, and can be revisited repeatedly throughout the day, or I can edge until I prime myself for the super BIG O.
I did a lot of research and found that it is referred to as a rosy palm, and commonly performed in Thailand.
Thank you Jenny
This is the best thing I’ve read in a while. It’s taken a while but I’ve got there now and WOW! what a fantastic way to improve dull lockdown days. Thank You